A Beginner’s Guide to Japanese Etiquette in Tokyo

Are you planning your visit soon and want to be fully prepared by learning about Japanese etiquette in Tokyo? Well, you came to the right place! Japan’s capital is a brilliant mix of modern innovation and deep-seated tradition, making it both an exhilarating and puzzling place to visit. One essential part of the appeal in Tokyo lies in cultural etiquette, which first-time visitors may find quite confusing. 

From dining etiquette to temple customs, following the local way will not only help you avoid any embarrassing situations but you will be well-appreciated by locals too. This guide will walk you through the necessary etiquette needed to navigate Tokyo with ease, just like a seasoned traveler.

Greetings and Communication Etiquette

Communication in Japan is as much about what is left unsaid as what is said. Knowing some of the basic manners will go a long way in helping make an excellent impression.

• Bowing: Bowing is in the blood of Japanese culture. It is not expected of a foreigner to know this art, but a slight bow to greet or as a sign of respect is always appreciated. Bow deeper for elders or in formal situations.
• Speech: Japanese people are quite soft and not direct in speech, especially in public. Words of importance that one can learn to use daily would include “Arigatou gozaimasu” (thank you very much) and “sumimasen” (excuse me/sorry). Keep your voice low in public areas as well as not using language that could provoke a confrontation.
• Non-verbal Cues: Gestures inoffensive in your country may have a different meaning in Japan. For example, pointing at someone is considered an insult. Also, do not touch others while talking as personal space is always a primary concern.

Dining Etiquette

Food is the hallmark of Japanese culture, and there are rules for dining. Here is a list of ways to make dining easier if you are in Tokyo.

• Chopstick Manners: One can seldom avoid using chopsticks in Tokyo but do not place these upright in a bowl of rice since this is a funeral ritual. Similarly, do not pass food from one set of chopsticks to another – this too is akin to a funeral custom.
• Slurping Noodles: Slurping your noodles in Japan is not taboo at all, as it is in Western dining etiquette; rather, it is encouraged since this indicates you are enjoying the dish.
• Paying the Bill: Only very few restaurants anticipate receiving a tip. While paying, put your money in the tray provided instead of handing it directly to the cashier.

On Public Transportation

Public transportation in Tokyo is one of the most efficient citywide transportation systems in the world, working on a principle of silent codes of politeness.

• Silence Is Golden: The public transport in Tokyo is remarkably quiet. Loud speech is avoided in these places. In a situation where you are listening to music or watching videos, headphones are suggested.
• By Phone: While it’s generally OK to text, it’s considered rude to talk on your phone on the train or bus. Set your phone to silent mode-or “manner mode“-as the Japanese call it.
• Giving Up Seats: Be aware of priority seating for the elderly, pregnant women, and people with disabilities. On crowded trains, it is considered polite to give up your seat to these people.

Temple and Shrine Etiquette

Tokyo has a number of beautiful temples and shrines that allow visitors but with some respect to the following rules to be followed seriously.

• Purification Rituals: In front of each shrine, you will often see a basin for purification. Take the ladle in your right hand and rinse your left hand first, followed by your right. Then take a small amount of water in your palm and rinse your mouth. Never drink water directly from the ladle.
• Manners for Praying: Approach the main hall of the shrine, perform a slight bow, throw the coin into the offering box, then bow twice, clap your hands twice, and bow once more.
• Photography Rules: Though many areas in the temple or shrine permit photography, always check if there is any indication of restrictions. Never take pictures right in the middle of sacred ceremonies or near prayer areas.

Etiquette on the Street and Public Space

Tokyo’s streets are tangled with busy people, yet something orderly is at play. Here’s how to fit in while seeing the sights.

• No Eating on the Go: While street food is an option, eating on the go is disrespectful. If you do purchase something from a street vendor, use a designated space to eat your treat.
• Trash and Recycling: Japan is a very clean country, and littering is considered one of the big no-nos. 
• Personal Space: Although Tokyo is crowded, great regard is taken in consideration of the personal space of individuals. During busy areas like train stations and markets, never push or bump into others.

• Entering Shops: Upon entering a small shop, you may notice the staff greets you by saying “irasshaimase”. You do not have to say anything in response, but it is good form when you hear this to give a slight bow or a nod. 

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